Seeing so many posts yesterday about the top ten songs that remind everyone of their SOs and their LDRs made me think about the songs that make me think of Richard and our relationship.
Keep reading to check them out!
Mirrors – Justin Timberlake
I’m lookin’ right at the other half of me
The vacancy that sat in my heart
Is a space that now you hold
When Justin Timberlake wrote The 20/20 Experience it was so clear just how deeply in love he was with his wife and now mother of his child, Jessica Biel. But what caught me off guard was just how much his lyrics would apply to my relationship with Richard! Justin’s “Mirrors” really captures how I feel about Richard – so much so that it’s definitely one of our main songs. When I look at Richard, I know I’m looking at the person who is my other half, who has filled a part of my heart that had been empty for some time but who also fills a part of my heart that I had no idea needed to be filled!
Diamonds – Rihanna
You’re a shooting star I see
A vision of ecstasy
When you hold me, I’m alive
We’re like diamonds in the sky
Okay so even though there are really sweet declarations of love in Rihanna’s hit, that’s actually not the reason I chose this song. When it came out, I was obsessed with the song as a piece on its own. Rihanna knows how to make ‘em! And so, I would start singing it or humming it randomly and every so often around Richard. At one point, he just asked “What song is that?” And I played it for him and he liked it too. The words are just an added bonus, but it just makes me think of how Richard and I love introducing each other to new songs. 🙂
Flowers in the Window – Travis
So now we’re here and now is fine
So far away from there and there is time, time, time
To plant new seeds and watch them grow
So there’ll be flowers in the window when we go
That part of Travis’ song makes me tear up every time I hear it. So, I can’t listen to this song all the time or I would be a blubbering mess! This song is written from the point of view of a person who was really cold and numb to everything before being in a relationship with his/her SO and how through falling in love this person can now appreciate the beauty of the world and see a beautiful future with them. Richard played this song one night for me randomly very early on in our relationship. And I just remember hearing it, listening intently to all the words, and I was just so flabbergasted. I asked him, “Is that really how you feel about me at this point?” And without hesitation, he said, “There’s no doubt.”
Mykonos – Fleet Foxes
Brother, you don’t need to turn me away
I was waiting down at the ancient gate
You go wherever you go today
You go today
“Mykonos" has one of the most beautiful, haunting beginnings. Those beautiful harmonies draw me in immediately, and they’re what made me love this song from the get-go. Now, although the song isn’t about a romantic relationship, the lines above remind me to be patient when Richard and I have disagreements. “You don’t need to turn me away/I was waiting down at the ancient gate.” Although I know we’re all human and we’re all bound to be guilty of it at one point or another, sometimes we don’t know what else to do but walk away. And while that hurts, we always tell each other that if either one of us gets upset at the other or if we both get upset at each other simultaneously, we will always give each other space when we need it but we will be waiting to reconcile with an open heart and an open mind.
Spanish Radio – Biffy Clyro
Hey! You can be lost at the same time as being found!
Richard played this song for the first time when we were doing chores around our apartment. I loved the beat, and we ended up taking a break and listening to it together. And when I looked into the lyrics, none of them really hit me until the last two lines. “You can be lost at the same time as being found!” Richard definitely makes me feel that way. I mean, there are so many unanswered questions that I have about myself and some parts of my life, but I also have Richard who makes me feel like I have found something so special even in the midst of the chaos that is life. 🙂
Feel My Love – Adele
I’ve known it from the moment that we met,
No doubt in my mind where you belong.
After Richard played me “Flowers in the Window”, I played him this beautiful Adele cover because it expressed how I felt about him at the time – and still do!
Open Your Eyes – Snow Patrol
Get up, get out, get away from these liars
‘Cause they don’t get your soul or your fire
Take my hand, knot your fingers through mine
And we’ll walk from this dark room for the last time
Richard shared this song with me when he wanted to show me the cool music video. The video was filmed by a guy driving around Paris at 5:00 am. It’s so cool to see the end result of that and to see Paris at that time during the day. Paris is one of my favorite cities in the world. 🙂 I loved the song, and I started listening to it a bit more. The lines that I have quoted here really reflect how much strength I feel Richard has given me to detach myself completely from negative people and negative energy in my life. It’s something I’ve wanted to do for a while, and I just knew I had to build the personal courage to do it for myself. And Richard was definitely one of the most important people in making that all happen.
You Are In Love – Taylor Swift
You can hear it in the silence, silence
You can feel it on the way home, way home
You can see it with the lights out, lights out
You are in love, true love
I might get some flack for it, but I’m all about keeping it 100% honest with you guys. So, I’m going to go ahead and say it: I was never a fan of Taylor Swift. Something about her songs when I was younger just didn’t click with me. She’s been wildly successful at such a young age, and on that level, I definitely respect that. Her music just never hit me the way that other artists’ work has throughout the years. But her 1989 album really did stike a chord with me, and the bonus track “You Are In Love” immediately made me think of Richard. It actually made me tear up a bit when I first heard it, and I made him listen to it even though he’s not a big fan of hers either. We know we’re in love with each other. I can definitely feel it not only when we tell each other or show each other how much we love each other, but I can feel it in the silence, which can be so much more profound than words or actions could ever be.
I’ll Be Seeing You – Billie Holiday
I’ll find you in the morning sun
And when the night is new
I’ll be looking at the moon
But I’ll be seeing you
“I’ll Be Seeing You” is so special to me because it has helped me cope with the passing of some of my loved ones. A few days after Richard and I parted in January, I was listening to some music on shuffle, and this song came on. It made me think of how even being 3,226 miles away from him, I would be seeing him in every little thing around me. Something about Billie’s incredible voice and the beautiful melody of this classic just made me feel comforted at such a delicate time.
Rather Be – Clean Bandit
When I am with you, there’s no place I’d rather be
I love the upbeat feel of this hit! But most of all, I love the words because they could not be more true to me and to Richard as we’re fighting the distance. “When I am with you, there’s no place I’d rather be.” Yas, Clean Bandit, YAS! It’s just one simple line, but it’s my feelings exactly. I cannot tell you how excited I am that he will be visiting next month! There’s very few people in my life who makes me feel as happy as he does and there’s nobody who makes me feel as loved as he does.
All quoted lyrics founds on www.azlyrics.com.
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