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90 Day LDR Challenge: Day 32

Day 32: How are you able to afford trips to see each other? Do you find this aspect of the relationship challenging?

Cat: I’ve been saving up every month! I wish I could just win the lottery and visit him whenever I want for however long I want. But until that happens (hahaha!), I just keep counting those dollars and cents. It’s not challenging per se, but it does require a lot of patience! But I know it’s worth it, and that’s what keeps me going. 🙂

Richard: Well I have already paid for the trip to see Cat in September for two weeks 🙂 I think I’m only going to go over the once, and Cat is hoping to come over next year because we’re hoping for the visa to be sorted out in time for me to move over next September. Ideally, I’d be going over more but I think we’re striking the right balance. We’re going to be together for a long time so I don’t find this challenging 🙂

90 Day LDR Challenge: Day 30

Day 30: If you two could go anywhere in the world together where would it be and why?

Cat: Somewhere tropical!! That’s why I reblog a lot of pictures of the beach or tropical getaways on here. A week or two somewhere tropical in a gorgeous resort with Richard sounds like heaven to me.

Richard: We keep talking about going Bora Bora for our honeymoon or for an expensive holiday. 

Cat: I love how those are essentially the same thing, ha! 

Richard: You know what I mean, nummins… It looks so serene there and somewhere to get away from the world and totally relax. Otherwise, I’d love to go travelling in France together and go to the mecca of French culture: Disney Land Paris ;D

Cat: Ladies and gentlemen, the love of my life…

90 Day LDR Challenge: Day 29

Day 29: Do you remember what you were both wearing the first time you video chatted (or saw each other)?

(Note: We decided to answer this question without knowing what the other person answered just to see what we would come up with on our own…)

Cat: Okay, the first time we met I was wearing jeans, a black long-sleeved shirt, brown booties and a burgundy leather jacket. I’m think Richard was wearing jeans, a black t-shirt, and a grey jacket?

Richard: We didn’t actually video chat before we met (I was shy.), but I believe I was wearing jeans, a leather jacket and a shirt. And Cat was wearing a maroon leather jacket and dark red pants(?).

Okay so it wasn’t a slam dunk, BUT we still sorta remember after almost 3 years, haha!

90 Day LDR Challenge: Day 28

Day 28: Describe the look of your dream apartment/house together!

Richard: I really like modern designs, but Cat tends to like places with a bit more character. So, probably something like a town house in Georgetown (like House of Cards) but modern features inside.

Cat: Sounds perfect to me. 🙂 

90 Day LDR Challenge: Day 27

Day 27: How long was the longest time you’ve ever not been in contact for? Why did that happen?

Cat: I think the longest we have ever been disconnected from each other has been a matter of hours… I know there are couples in LDRs out there that can’t talk to their SOs for days or even weeks, maybe even a month or so at a time! So, I’m definitely not complaining.

Richard: Ermmm, I’m not sure actually. It might have been about a day or so after Cat left DC for Manchester. But we’ve always managed to stay in touch one way or another 🙂

90 Day LDR Challenge: Day 25

Day 25: What is something he/she does to purposely annoy you (regardless that it makes you smile)?

Cat: Oh, my God… Where do I begin!? I feel like I could list a whole bunch of things, and he would probably write some sort of rebuttal about how he doesn’t do it purposely to annoy me but rather because he’s just showing me his love… Sometimes, being in a committed relationship with a guy who majored in law got me feeling like: